Working with You
… when we learn to trust the inner signal, cultivate it, nurture it, value it and then communicate it, then what we bring to the table is a gift to all Life.
My offerings
Lia’s sessions are focussed around co-creating safe consensual containers where she will join you on a journey into and onto the edge of your evolution. Within your window of presence she will support and coach you to create new pathways of experiencing pleasure. Lia is passionate about suffusing her work with radical acceptance and embodying the benevolent culture in which the fullness of who-we-really-are can rest into. Lia is also passionate about the work of miracles and how important it is to embody a higher knowing of our fullest potential – Namaste – The Divinity in me sees the Divinity in you. Lia works at holding dual awareness at all times – seeing the suffering as Jesus did and at the same time holding the higher knowing of the truth of our unique light and love that is who we really are. It is not one without the other – spiritual bypassing or navel gazing – it is the two suffused together in a wonderful interplay of healing and wholing.
Using Betty Martins Wheel of Consent, Voice Dialogue parts work and Body Focusing techniques we can navigate:
- Consent and boundaries – physical and energetic
- Body de-armouring
- Body shame
- Sexual conditioning in all its myriad presentations
- Libido challenges
- Difficultly achieving orgasm
- Cervical Awareness
- Prostate Awareness
- Anal mapping
- Core Erotic Theme
- Pleasure mapping
- Mindful self pleasure coaching
- Scar tissue remediation
Tantric Massage
Lia offers 1-2-1 sessions of sacred erotic intimacy, evoking the Temple space through ritual and practice she supports her clients to expand their capacity for the deep and powerful charge of Eros – the Life Force manifest – initiating her clients into the mysteries of the universe through the body.
Creating a safe intentional ritualised space for Eros to flow through the body, Lia can work with you to first build safety of connection, energetic resourcing and then lather you in devotional erotic touch including genital and/or anal/prostate massage to connect to the places where often our bodies are lacking deep, slow, present, loving and honouring connection. The energy will be then focused upon speeding up and then slowing down the energetic intensity to encourage the metabolising of tension built and held in the body, releasing blocks to experience a deeper intimacy.
Allow her to take you on a journey to discover deeper levels of relaxation, openness and surrender, an altered trance state where your senses will be heightened and your energy body more available to move and shift into places where there is shadow lying, an embodied approach to working with our limiting intimacy patterns.
Allow Eros to suffuse your mind, body and spirit bringing connection to the deepest parts of our life experience.
Bringing an alchemy of feminine wildness and a truly compassionate loving heart she will support you to open to your erotic power and pleasure.
Receive the gift of devotional loving touch that sinks deep into the core of your being.
Welcome the fullness of you, the wide expanse of your multi-dimensionality.
Explore and express your authentic desires, passions and fears.
With the holding structure of a tantric massage session be bathed in the transmission of the Divine Feminine as a pathway to restoring your connection to the soul place in you that knows this from ancient times.
Remember yourself as a Lover as a King/Queen.
Benefits:
- deep full body relaxation
- fully devotional loving touch
- metabolise tension/blocks held in body through dearmouring touch, breath and sound
- open to your erotic power and pleasure
- relearn the support and love that is always there for you
- find safety and pleasure within your body
- reconnect to your sexuality and sensuality
Sitting together wrapped in sarongs, opening the sacred space and connecting over a cup of ceremonial tea to begin with, you will be offered the space to share what is arising for you in your life and what your intention for the session is, what in your life you would like to bring to the table to be metabolised and alchemised through the session. You will then co-create a unique session specifically tailored for your wishes and desires that honours your boundaries and intention. You will go on a journey together into your inner landscape bringing conscious loving awareness to the fullness that is you.
All touch is one way and genital and anal touch is gloved.
Sessions near Sidmouth in East Devon
min 2.5hrs @£250 extra time @£100/hr
Lia does all her admin via email, no phone and requires a short free online ZOOM discovery call to meet her clients electronically first.
Voice Dialogue
Voice Dialogue is a unique and powerful polarity based parts work modality, accessing a deep transformational portal through a full embracing of all our current ways of being.
Access your own unique inner guidance through the selves, generating personal and thus easily digestible insights that move you forward on your journey of self-awareness.
This modality uses a Model of Consciousness- a map that can be laid over all other psychological and therapeutic modalities especially other parts work models such as IFS and psychosynthesis.
Based around the dual polarising aspects in all Life, Voice Dialogue offers an
energetic and embodied practice of moving towards wholing. Working with the paradox of lovingly accepting ourselves as we are and moving towards a vision of change, Voice Dialogue finds the sweet spot within all places of inner tension and inner conflict where we can move forwards away from our survival conditioning with the most amount of grace and harmony.
Voice Dialogue £65 for 70 min online or in person session
What to expect
We start with some kind of embodiment work and sound, check in and then set an intention for the session. We then spend some time co creating a consensual container to work with the client’s intention, small pieces of work with lots of integration time – based around cutting edge neurobiology for building new ways of being. WE continue in the session journeying along the clients resilient edge of resistance, continuing to co create new containers of learning leading towards the intention.
Every session is co-created consensually and will always focus on working within the clients’ felt sense of safety. The work is based around finding the clients ‘resilient edge of resistance’- the place where there is the potential for growth and metabolising trauma.
Sessions can range from fully clothed and voice based to fully naked active receiving of erotic touch and erotic exploration. This bodywork is all one way touch and gloves are used for genital and anal touch
Testimonials
I’ve has sessions with Lia both in Voice Dialogue and Sexiological Bodywork. I continue to feel incredibly grateful for the ways and depths in which Lia is able to hold space. Not only is she very present with me, but I experience her as having deep layers of understanding of complex psychologies and systems, so that when I share what’s going on for me, she is able to witness, empathise and reflect using a solid tapestry of methodologies that she weaves seamlessly, in an embodied way, with so much heart and love. So I feel very held and seen not just as an individual but in the context of my social and cultural existence, and her deep and wide insights help me bring more compassion to my wounded and hurting parts. As a result I feel less like the problem is in me, and more able to see patterns that are societal inherited and common, which helps me feel less alone, relieved, softer and therefore more empowered and motivated to tend to what wants tending to. I highly recommend Lia as a skilled facilitator and space-holder.
Lia Love is a great facilitator - she has a warm easy and welcoming manner and possesses a depth of understanding of the whole Voice Dialogue process through the many years of training that she has done with us. She is a rising star among the new facilitators in the field, her hall mark being to walk her talk, to disentangle the many strands of the inner process with care, intelligence, compassion and integrity, and to give support and encouragement to her clients from a deeply heartfelt place in herself. We highly recommend Lia as a Voice Dialogue facilitator.
“I had my first tantric session with Lia today. It started with a nice chat which was followed by just the right amount of tantric ritual which allowed me to drop into the most relaxed place. The massage was amazing and took me to places I have not visited before. She seems to intuitively know just what your body is wanting and despite having a three hour session I did not want it to end. The feeling of stillness and calm that I felt when she finished was remarkable. I can thoroughly recommend a session if you have the opportunity.”
“I have had several sessions with Lia and each one has surpassed my expectations. She has been brilliant at tuning into my requirements and her touch always hits the right note. After having a session I feel a wonderful sense of calm and relaxation. The cumulative effect of her sessions has made me a much more confident and positive person and less likely to get stressed when things go wrong. I now find it easier to relate to others which was something I was not so good at prior to my first session. I highly recommend her.”
“Yet another wonderfully expanding session with you Lia. Thank you so much, your energy radiates beautifully throughout our time together.”